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Category Archives: Advice
Peggy Vaughan’s work: “Read it all. It’s all you need.”
A comment on “Extramarital Affairs Expert “Dear Peggy” Vaughan has passed.” I read thirty books before I came to Peggy’s. There I stopped. It was all there, no need to go further. As a matter of fact, her rational straightforward and … Continue reading
I Need To Tell Someone
It’s the morning after…you know what’s happened. The sun still rises, the kids still run down for breakfast, the dog is doing the “I have to pee” dance of joy, the milk gets spilled, the cat throws up, the husband…will … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Friends, Telling others, You Can Burn His Stuff
Tagged drama, indiscrete, this is about what I need, what should I do?
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Introduction – You Can Burn His Stuff Later
Letters and answering them have brought to my attention the need for a little guidance when slapped in the face by discovery of an affair. I was in shock, for weeks, let alone the next day or the first week. Paralyzed, actually, … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Behavior, Emotions, Fear, Reactions, Recovering, You Can Burn His Stuff
Tagged respect, uncertainty
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Where We Are, What’s Next
I owe an apology to my readers for taking so long to update this blog. A year and a half since I last posted? I can’t believe it. Where has the time gone? Gratefully, that time, or precious little of … Continue reading
Recovery Is For Both
Things are painful enough that I decided to go back to The Source, Peggy Vaughan, to see if I could find some help. Why I didn’t do this sooner? Who knows, but as I wrote in an email to Peggy, … Continue reading
Posted in Advice, Dear Peggy, Extramarital affairs expert, Peggy Vaughan, Recovering, The Battle, Triggers, What Would Peggy Say?
Tagged disappointment, pain, rejection
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After His Affair 
A Dedication to Peggy Vaughan – Founder of BAN by Ann Bercht
“I, and thousands of others, will be eternally grateful for Peggy Vaughan and her bold, honest and pioneering work in helping the world recover from affairs. If only I had found her during my own recovery, my journey would’ve been less painful. … Continue reading →