What After His Affair has been is a safe place for me to reflect; an outlet for rage and reason. The alternative is grossly unattractive, involves blood on the carpet and possibly even his death followed by jail time and maybe a girlfriend named Betty.
I discovered my husband had been involved with another woman in December of 2008. Part two of this blog, You Can Burn His Things, Later, is my advice to people who are trying to navigate the pain and chaos of the same discovery.
Many thanks to Sarah for your confidence and help!
Lyn
After His Affair 
Nope, I’m pretty sure her name would be “Big Betty” and they’d call her “Big Bet” for short. ;)
Deborah
I bet you’re right. :)
Lyn
Too Funny!!! I remember those days too! lol
Lexxie
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This is (was) Broken Heart Recovery, my anonymous blog was compromised and became not so anonymous. I’ve changed my site address to http://www.stilllovinghim.wordpress.com
I am so sorry for your pain. I also survived an affair and am still married today. I am offering support and guidance now to other couples. Affairs are so heart wrenching but if you are both willing to do the work then magic really happens for yourself and your marriage. I can relate to all of your posts. http://www.amarmielife.com/2014/07/healing-after-affair-coaching.html