Category Archives: Behavior

Introduction – You Can Burn His Stuff Later

Posted on November 15, 2012 by Lyn

Letters and answering them have brought to my attention the need for a little guidance when slapped in the face by discovery of an affair.  I was in shock, for weeks, let alone the next day or the first week.  Paralyzed, actually, … Continue reading →

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The Comfort of Laura

Posted on December 11, 2010 by Lyn

When I first learned of the affair, I told 2 people very close to me, both of whom were furious with anger.  One was female, the other male; people who have known me all or most of my life. When … Continue reading →

Posted in Behavior, Betrayal, Emotions, Love, Reactions, Revenge, Suspicion | 18 Comments

Not So Fast…

Posted on June 19, 2010 by Lyn

It totally figures.  Finally, you realize that you’re not thinking about What Happened every waking minute or even every other waking minute.  In fact, you can’t quite remember the last time you were even experiencing angst or fury or vengeful … Continue reading →

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The Dilemma, Case Closed?

Posted on June 17, 2010 by Lyn

  I feel like a slacker not having updated since I wrote “A Dilemma.” That dilemma was such a major part of my life throughout much of the past 6 months, a giant wall between myself and other people.  You’d … Continue reading →

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A Dilemma

Posted on May 3, 2010 by Lyn

I noticed a message on my phone and checked the voice mail.  It was a message from my sister-in-law, Husband’s brother’s wife. Brother’s  Wife and I have been good friends over the years and have gotten closer, as have Other … Continue reading →

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“Number Withheld”

Posted on March 17, 2010 by Lyn

  Yesterday, I heard a strange sound.  An old cell phone my husband stopped using last summer began to ring.  It has a very distinctive ring, so I instantly knew what it was, even though he had “retired” it.  I … Continue reading →

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Shut Up

Posted on March 2, 2010 by Lyn

I love telling my husband to shut up.  I haven’t done it for a while and I only began doing it a couple of years ago and although it violates my long-established philosophy of life to say it?  I get … Continue reading →

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He Is Sad, Today

Posted on February 2, 2010 by Lyn

He’s sad, today.  Last night he wanted to hold me and kiss me and be close, but this morning, he was remote. Maybe it was because I brought up something he didn’t want to discuss, namely, some things said during … Continue reading →

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