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Category Archives: Our marriage
Husband Speaks
I am Lyn’s husband and I had an affair. I cheated on my wife. Depending on where you are in your journey, you might feel that there isn’t anything I could say that would interest you. I would suppose that … Continue reading
Posted in Husband, Love, Men, Offender, Our marriage, Recovering, Trust
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Where We Are, What’s Next
I owe an apology to my readers for taking so long to update this blog. A year and a half since I last posted? I can’t believe it. Where has the time gone? Gratefully, that time, or precious little of … Continue reading
From Now On?
Someone tweeted, “One’s best success comes after their greatest disappointments.” ~ Henry Ward Beecher. I don’t remember who the **** Henry Ward Beecher is, but, really? Really, Henry Ward Beecher? Because if I decide to believe this, and I have … Continue reading
Posted in Affair, Anger, Betrayal, Discontent, Emotions, Grief, Our marriage, Reactions, Secrets
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Her Facebook
It happens every couple of weeks, when things get feeling a little too “back to normal” and it begins to feel like I am doing all of the heavy lifting in marriage recovery. You know, the reading, the reflection, the … Continue reading
Posted in Affair, Anger, Emotions, Facebook, Lost Love, Opportunity, Other Woman, Our marriage, Reactions, Secrets, Shock
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What’s She Got?
Explanations such as, “By the time I realized it was too late, it was too late” are not at all helpful and only cause that question mark hanging over my head get bigger and bolder. Soon, it ought to be … Continue reading
Posted in Affair, Anger, Emotions, Fear, Other Woman, Our marriage
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Fear, An Awful Place to Visit
I’ve been living in fear. Fear is not a mood, but it’s a true mood-killer. It’s there like a hellish foundation of all that is horrible and terrifying. It’s accompanied by dread, something which gives the fear some strength, backbone, … Continue reading
The Promise
He was distressed over the promise he made two months ago. I asked him to tell someone about the affair. He asked me what he could do and I told him what I wanted him to do “without discussing it … Continue reading
The Other Shoe
Finally. I am starting to thaw. I skipped over a lot of stuff in my mission to get things where they are “supposed” to be without realizing all of the sacrifices I was making. It occurred to me, yesterday, after … Continue reading
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Where We Were
Let me tell you about our marriage.We’ve been married 11 years, my husband and I. Happily. Am I deluded? We were so happily married that people used to comment, “I’ve never, ever heard you complain about your husband!” “You got … Continue reading
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After His Affair 