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Category Archives: Suspicion
The Comfort of Laura
When I first learned of the affair, I told 2 people very close to me, both of whom were furious with anger. One was female, the other male; people who have known me all or most of my life. When … Continue reading
Clean-up
Finally came to a peace agreement around noon, Sunday, if you can call it that. Maybe we were too exhausted to go on. He was sorry, we talked some more and he eventually came to the conclusion that I misunderstood … Continue reading
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Crashing and Burning
Long, long, long day. There is a little conflict here on why I don’t feel so well after not knowing where he was for a few hours and he is upset that I have the nerve to be upset and … Continue reading
Posted in Betrayal, Depression, Ego, Fear, Other Woman, Suspicion, Trust
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“Number Withheld”
Yesterday, I heard a strange sound. An old cell phone my husband stopped using last summer began to ring. It has a very distinctive ring, so I instantly knew what it was, even though he had “retired” it. I … Continue reading
Sad and Suspicious
It’s been a sad two weeks. A person who made a great impact on my life died. His funeral is today, but I don’t think I am going to put myself through that. I will just keep in mind that … Continue reading
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Moods
Moods. They are all over the place and change so rapidly I’m surprised I don’t have whiplash. This minute I feel leveled, devastated, sick to my stomach. Last night, I felt comfortable sitting here on the sofa with my husband … Continue reading
After His Affair 
Peggy Vaughan’s work: “Read it all. It’s all you need.”
A comment on “Extramarital Affairs Expert “Dear Peggy” Vaughan has passed.” I read thirty books before I came to Peggy’s. There I stopped. It was all there, no need to go further. As a matter of fact, her rational straightforward and … Continue reading →