Category Archives: THE NEW REALITY

Peggy Vaughan’s work: “Read it all. It’s all you need.”

A comment on “Extramarital Affairs Expert “Dear Peggy” Vaughan has passed.” I read thirty books before I came to Peggy’s. There I stopped. It was all there, no need to go further. As a matter of fact, her rational straightforward and … Continue reading

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Elizabeth Edwards Puts Things in Perspective

It’s been a year to the day since my husband’s affair was revealed to me by the husband of the OW via Christmas card.  I expected it to be a worse day than it was and wondered if every December … Continue reading

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Q and A

“Let me understand this. You had an affair.” “Yes.” “You went to a hotel?” “Yes. She made all of the arrangements.” “You went to a hotel to meet another woman.” “Yes.” “You went to a room and took your clothes … Continue reading

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