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Category Archives: Opportunity
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It happens every couple of weeks, when things get feeling a little too “back to normal” and it begins to feel like I am doing all of the heavy lifting in marriage recovery. You know, the reading, the reflection, the … Continue reading
Posted in Affair, Anger, Emotions, Facebook, Lost Love, Opportunity, Other Woman, Our marriage, Reactions, Secrets, Shock
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From “Friending” to Affair
Men are very different than women, no doubt about that. Whereas, being happily married has been enough of a deterrent to temptation for myself, never mind any moral arguments, it was not enough for my husband, the same one who … Continue reading
Posted in Facebook, Lost Love, Opportunity, Shock
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Q and A
“Let me understand this. You had an affair.” “Yes.” “You went to a hotel?” “Yes. She made all of the arrangements.” “You went to a hotel to meet another woman.” “Yes.” “You went to a room and took your clothes … Continue reading
Posted in "Need to know", Affair, Discovery, Facebook, Lost Love, Opportunity, Other Woman, Reactions, Secrets, Shock, THE NEW REALITY, The Reveal
Tagged "need to know", Answers, this is about what I need, uncertainty
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The Lost Love
I sat for a long time, real or imagined, on the sofa. I saw what happened, I heard what happened, but what was happening? I stood up and turned towards our bedroom. My husband was now in the kitchen, ready … Continue reading
Posted in Facebook, Lost Love, Opportunity, Other Woman, Secrets, Shock
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After His Affair 
Peggy Vaughan’s work: “Read it all. It’s all you need.”
A comment on “Extramarital Affairs Expert “Dear Peggy” Vaughan has passed.” I read thirty books before I came to Peggy’s. There I stopped. It was all there, no need to go further. As a matter of fact, her rational straightforward and … Continue reading →