Category Archives: Husband

“The Need to Know” – Why we need answers to our questions by Peggy Vaughan

Posted on November 21, 2012 by Lyn

When learning of our partner’s affair, most of us feel an intense “need to know” – asking questions to try to make some kind of sense out of what has happened. Read Peggy’s article here, at the Beyond Affairs Network

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Husband Speaks

Posted on November 17, 2012 by Lyn

I am Lyn’s husband and I had an affair.  I cheated on my wife.  Depending on where you are in your journey, you might feel that there isn’t anything I could say that would interest you. I would suppose that … Continue reading →

Posted in Husband, Love, Men, Offender, Our marriage, Recovering, Trust | 5 Comments

Love Hurts

Posted on March 12, 2010 by Lyn

After my Checking-Out-OW’s-Facebook-Meltdown, my friend sash wrote me another one of her awesome letters: I’m sorry it feels so heavy on your shoulders.  Sadly, you ARE the only one that can work through your process.  Whether it’s letting go, grieving, … Continue reading →

Posted in Anger, Facebook, Husband, Other Woman | 2 Comments