Category Archives: Emotions

The Comfort of Laura

Posted on December 11, 2010 by Lyn

When I first learned of the affair, I told 2 people very close to me, both of whom were furious with anger.  One was female, the other male; people who have known me all or most of my life. When … Continue reading →

Posted in Behavior, Betrayal, Emotions, Love, Reactions, Revenge, Suspicion | 18 Comments

A Dilemma

Posted on May 3, 2010 by Lyn

I noticed a message on my phone and checked the voice mail.  It was a message from my sister-in-law, Husband’s brother’s wife. Brother’s  Wife and I have been good friends over the years and have gotten closer, as have Other … Continue reading →

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Inching Towards Normal

Posted on April 14, 2010 by Lyn

I’m surprised.  I am feeling so much better than I was over the past few weeks.  Much better. Yesterday, I was printing out copies when the magenta ran out and I thought Husband had said he’d changed it.  Just at … Continue reading →

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Clean-up

Posted on April 12, 2010 by Lyn

Finally came to a peace agreement around noon, Sunday, if you can call it that.  Maybe we were too exhausted to go on.  He was sorry, we talked some more and he eventually came to the conclusion that I misunderstood … Continue reading →

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Crashing and Burning

Posted on April 11, 2010 by Lyn

Long, long, long day.  There is a little conflict here on why I don’t feel so well after not knowing where he was for a few hours and he is upset that I have the nerve to be upset and … Continue reading →

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From Now On?

Posted on April 1, 2010 by Lyn

Someone tweeted, “One’s best success comes after their greatest disappointments.”  ~ Henry Ward Beecher. I don’t remember who the **** Henry Ward Beecher is, but, really?  Really, Henry Ward Beecher?  Because if I decide to believe this, and I have … Continue reading →

Posted in Affair, Anger, Betrayal, Discontent, Emotions, Grief, Our marriage, Reactions, Secrets | 8 Comments

Thanks, Jesse!

Posted on March 19, 2010 by Lyn

Well, Jesse, thanks to your cheatin’ heart, along with the rest of you, we have gotten to the bottom of the mystery of the Why.  Why guys cheat, which Deborah says (in comments) is different than why women cheat, which … Continue reading →

Posted in Affairs in the Media, Betrayal, Grief, Jesse James, Sandra Bullock, Why men cheat? | 1 Comment